I like a guy who's ROMANTIC and knows how to communicate. I like a guy who is EMOTIONAL because after sitting for a quiz, I found out that I'm actually a negotiator. I like people who don't tell me off, they just piss me. I don't like people to comment on bad things about me although I know how to change. Sometimes at the wrong time, it can be harsh and I feel the tension all the time. I don't like to comment on people other than wish them good and nice things in life. I am a typically sentimental person and tears come easily. I don't like to be seen crying or to be in tears. I don't like to be compared to a better person but if you know how to "talk" I could easily change for the better.
Be SOFT and then you're approachable. Accept and smile or LAUGH it OFF. It works all the time. If you're angry, control your voice and tantrum. Turn away or break into a laughter. People will not be offended. DON'T ASK FOR MONEY. People will know how to buy you and piss you off. It never works.
Always know how to deal with a situation and make things work or go well AS A TEAM. Don't only think about yourself and your money. Things go well if you let others win and know how to accept defeat with a smile. PUSH IT OFF. It works like magic if you know how to take care of self-esteem. GOOD LUCK be on your side..
Wednesday, May 4, 2011
Friday, April 29, 2011
JOURNAL ENTRY.
My Next-door neighbour's house caught fire when the lightning struck just three hours ago,noon. Today is thursday, 28th April 2011.We called the fire brigade because we saw fire coming out from the roof-top and the beams falling off to the ground. The fire brigade came and the fire was put off in no time. There was a water pump outside our house. People were taking pictures of the fire from the roof-top of the house. Handphones were flying with pictures here and there. Lucky it didn't distrubt the entire fire rescue. The residents were trying to capture the drama and post it in the internet of theirs. Everyone wanted to recollect the drama of the fire brigade putting out the fire. Everything went well and the fire was put off.
GOOD LIFE.
Having a good Life means doing the things you love and you cherished it. Having a passion means having a love of your life may it be an act, a purpose or a favour. Or it could even be in a human form - a person who can fulfill your life with something anew and afresh. Mine is an object or an act and a purpose in life. A purpose is the most important. Many people lead a normal life of force, sedentary lifestyle. Other than exposing your self to "danger", don't go out at night (for girls) unless you have to and your job requires you to go out at night. Somethings don't last for long, you may not be there permanent, things move and so do people of all walks of life. The thing is to enjoy while you can for certain things are hard to find and when you do find it in the end, you might not enjoy it or wanted it at all. Don't think of the "mission" in life but expect the least to come and the most will arrive.
I like to move on with life. I won't cry over spilt milk, get another bottle ,pay with your cash.There are some things that money can't buy and many things that money can make you do.
NATURE.
Nature has its ways of shaping things. Some people are borned to be queen, for example Princess Katey (Catherine) Middleton. I bet she's the luckiest girl ever!!!!! But underneath lies deep, unreluctant expectations......
How do I face life? I take one step at a time and at each step I take, I contemplate. Take each step as you reach and you won't fall. Don't push the problem away, it only gets farther behind but you still won't solve it. Face it and the truth will come out. Problem solved. Human nature had its ways.... I value that and treasure that thought. I may not understand a million things but if I take heed , I listen, I might come to a good conclusion that I can live with and accept. And there wasn't any case !!!
GOOD LIFE.
Having a good Life means doing the things you love and you cherished it. Having a passion means having a love of your life may it be an act, a purpose or a favour. Or it could even be in a human form - a person who can fulfill your life with something anew and afresh. Mine is an object or an act and a purpose in life. A purpose is the most important. Many people lead a normal life of force, sedentary lifestyle. Other than exposing your self to "danger", don't go out at night (for girls) unless you have to and your job requires you to go out at night. Somethings don't last for long, you may not be there permanent, things move and so do people of all walks of life. The thing is to enjoy while you can for certain things are hard to find and when you do find it in the end, you might not enjoy it or wanted it at all. Don't think of the "mission" in life but expect the least to come and the most will arrive.
I like to move on with life. I won't cry over spilt milk, get another bottle ,pay with your cash.There are some things that money can't buy and many things that money can make you do.
NATURE.
Nature has its ways of shaping things. Some people are borned to be queen, for example Princess Katey (Catherine) Middleton. I bet she's the luckiest girl ever!!!!! But underneath lies deep, unreluctant expectations......
How do I face life? I take one step at a time and at each step I take, I contemplate. Take each step as you reach and you won't fall. Don't push the problem away, it only gets farther behind but you still won't solve it. Face it and the truth will come out. Problem solved. Human nature had its ways.... I value that and treasure that thought. I may not understand a million things but if I take heed , I listen, I might come to a good conclusion that I can live with and accept. And there wasn't any case !!!
Wednesday, April 27, 2011
I am not a LESBIAN.
WE ARE NOT LESBIANS IF WE DO NOT ENGAGED IN THE ACTIVITIES OF A LESBIAN! for example, Kissing among girls, unreasonable explicit act of intercoursing between two person of the same sex and vice versa for men if they do not want to be classified as homosexuals.
Thursday, February 24, 2011
Wednesday, February 16, 2011
EVOLUTIONARY PSYCHOLOGY.
Evolutionary psychology (EP) is an approach within psychology that examines psychological traits - such as memory, perception, or language - from a modern evolutionary perspective. It seems to explain how many human psychological traits are evolved adaptations, that is, the functional products of natural selection or sexual selection. Adaptationist thinking about physiological mechanisms, such as the heart, lungs and immune system, is common in evolutionary biology. Evolutionary psychology applies the same thinking to psychology, arguing that the mind has a modular structure similar to that of the body with different modules having adapted to serve different functions. Evolutionary psychologists argue that much of human behavior is the output of psychological adaptations that evolved to solve recurrent problems in human ancestral environments.
Other adaptations, according to EP, might include the abilities to infer others' emotions, to discern kin from non-kin, to identify and prefer healthier mates to cooperate with others and so on. Consistent with the theory of natural selection, evolutionary psychology see organisms as often in conflict with others of their species, including mates and relatives. For example, mother mammals and their young offspring sometimes struggle over weaning, which benefits the mother more than the child. Evolutionary psychology emphasizes the importance of kin selection and reciprocity in allowing for non-selfish social traits such as altruism to arise.
Like chimps and bonobos, humans have subtle and flexible social instincts, allowing them to form extended families, lifelong friendships and political alliances. In studies testing theoretical predictions, evolutionary psychologists have made impressive findings on topics such as infanticide, intelligence, beauty, and parental investment.
Evolutionary psychologists hold that behaviors or traits that occur universally in all cultures are good candidates for evolutionary adaptations. Evolved psychology adaptations ( such as the ability to learn a language ) interact with cultural inputs to produce specific behaviors (e.g. the specific language learned ). Innate gender differences, such as greater adult strength and aggression among men, are explained as adaptations that reflect the different reproductive strategies of males and females. Evolutionary psychologist contrast their approach to what they term the "standard social science model", according to which the mind is a general-purpose cognition duice shaped almost entirely by culture. The influence of adaptationist approaches in psychology has been steadily increasing.
My house where I was married to had no furniture. It has no furnishing. It has no entertainment to lighten up your soul. The days are long for a married stay-home Mom. In order to replenish time other than boring household jobs all around the house, a girl has to have a hobby which she loves.... Let her do something that she enjoys, she will be spirit-free lifted and she will worship you more as long as she knows her boundaries...
Other adaptations, according to EP, might include the abilities to infer others' emotions, to discern kin from non-kin, to identify and prefer healthier mates to cooperate with others and so on. Consistent with the theory of natural selection, evolutionary psychology see organisms as often in conflict with others of their species, including mates and relatives. For example, mother mammals and their young offspring sometimes struggle over weaning, which benefits the mother more than the child. Evolutionary psychology emphasizes the importance of kin selection and reciprocity in allowing for non-selfish social traits such as altruism to arise.
Like chimps and bonobos, humans have subtle and flexible social instincts, allowing them to form extended families, lifelong friendships and political alliances. In studies testing theoretical predictions, evolutionary psychologists have made impressive findings on topics such as infanticide, intelligence, beauty, and parental investment.
Evolutionary psychologists hold that behaviors or traits that occur universally in all cultures are good candidates for evolutionary adaptations. Evolved psychology adaptations ( such as the ability to learn a language ) interact with cultural inputs to produce specific behaviors (e.g. the specific language learned ). Innate gender differences, such as greater adult strength and aggression among men, are explained as adaptations that reflect the different reproductive strategies of males and females. Evolutionary psychologist contrast their approach to what they term the "standard social science model", according to which the mind is a general-purpose cognition duice shaped almost entirely by culture. The influence of adaptationist approaches in psychology has been steadily increasing.
My house where I was married to had no furniture. It has no furnishing. It has no entertainment to lighten up your soul. The days are long for a married stay-home Mom. In order to replenish time other than boring household jobs all around the house, a girl has to have a hobby which she loves.... Let her do something that she enjoys, she will be spirit-free lifted and she will worship you more as long as she knows her boundaries...
Thursday, February 10, 2011
Ling Ling.
Hi, my name is Ling Ling. I'm going to turn 42 in April 22nd. I am a Taurian. My chinese zodiac is a cork. I love to eat Kentucky Fried Chicken, Pizza Hut, and also MacDonalds. I also like to eat at Nasi Kandar or any other chinese restaurant near my home. I always prefer Homecook meals but during occasions when everybody is hectic and wiped out, we go outside and eat.
There are four in my family right now. I am married and I have two children. They are both boys, aged 12 and 9 this year. My husband is staying with my children and he takes care of their school days. My mother-in-law, Nanny Mcphee cooks around the house and attend to the children's needs. I'm sorry I couldn't stay with them as I had to take care of my father , who is ill. I also helps my Mom a lot around the house and we always go out together to buy food.
My two boys needed space to grow as the house is very small and the space to grow is very limited. So I have volunteered to relief my space around the house for them to study and play. My two boys are independent and they don't want me around the house and disturb their privacy. I respect their needs and thus my parents agreed to take me in back home. I am now back in hometown with my family. My two boys are happy that they also found their new-found freedom around the house eventhough Nanny Mcphee can be rather strict.
My husband's workplace is very far away from his house and he travels quite a distance to get there. His food supply is limited and his days are jam-packed. His work requires him to be there all the time and always on time in schedule. I respected his duty at work and never troubled him at any cost. He works with the cargo factory and its manufacturers at the port.
He is an average income earner and his allowance I gave to his mother to take care of my two children. I am free from any debt and I am also independent. His mother is quite wealthy and owns a property. She is a vegetarian. My husband is a vegetarian. My two boys are also vegetarian as well. (ps. I'm carnibal - referring to meat )But they do buy a whole chicken that last for a week......
I love my family a lot. I will not forsake them at any cost. I am a lovable mom.Happy Chinese New Year of the Bunny Rabbit 2011!
There are four in my family right now. I am married and I have two children. They are both boys, aged 12 and 9 this year. My husband is staying with my children and he takes care of their school days. My mother-in-law, Nanny Mcphee cooks around the house and attend to the children's needs. I'm sorry I couldn't stay with them as I had to take care of my father , who is ill. I also helps my Mom a lot around the house and we always go out together to buy food.
My two boys needed space to grow as the house is very small and the space to grow is very limited. So I have volunteered to relief my space around the house for them to study and play. My two boys are independent and they don't want me around the house and disturb their privacy. I respect their needs and thus my parents agreed to take me in back home. I am now back in hometown with my family. My two boys are happy that they also found their new-found freedom around the house eventhough Nanny Mcphee can be rather strict.
My husband's workplace is very far away from his house and he travels quite a distance to get there. His food supply is limited and his days are jam-packed. His work requires him to be there all the time and always on time in schedule. I respected his duty at work and never troubled him at any cost. He works with the cargo factory and its manufacturers at the port.
He is an average income earner and his allowance I gave to his mother to take care of my two children. I am free from any debt and I am also independent. His mother is quite wealthy and owns a property. She is a vegetarian. My husband is a vegetarian. My two boys are also vegetarian as well. (ps. I'm carnibal - referring to meat )But they do buy a whole chicken that last for a week......
I love my family a lot. I will not forsake them at any cost. I am a lovable mom.Happy Chinese New Year of the Bunny Rabbit 2011!
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