LAUGHTER ADDS RICHNESS, TEXTURE, AND COLOR TO OTHERWISE ORDINARY DAYS. IT IS A GIFT, A CHOICE, A DISCIPLINE, AND AN "ART". I lost my job. LAUGHTER is the Best Medicine. Unless you have time to play doctor. I am resting for the holidays as the year end is coming...

I work at MOM'S BAKERY AND CAFETERIA. )=D

I WORK AT MOM'S BAKERY AND CAFETERIA since 16th September , 2011 , 1 Malaysia Day. The pay is Good, Benefits is Great, Food is tasty and my service experience enhanced me to go on. I also know packing and packaging and bakery stuff. I also know waitressing, and serving and I am good at taking orders and keying in onto the computer for payment. I am good and all rounder.)D

Academically,when you are young,you should be good; but when you're old, SIMPLICITY counts. People may find you easy to LIVE WITH and food will be resourceful.)=D

The simplest solutions are often the cleverest. They are also usually wrong.....

A man's HAPPINESS is set on the foundation of his dreams, none of which may ever be realized, but the happiness is his REALITY in the RELENTLESS PURSUIT.......)=D

I wish that my husband's love and mine will once again be reunited........ Praise and Glory be to GOD!

I don't own a camera and my mobile handphone doesn't have a camera attached. I am safe from exploiting myself and my body as a whole......! Social Media can destroy your image if you don't take good care of it! ):D

DON'T SHOW YOUR SKIN TOO MUCH! =D

BBGS Museum - School Song (VOCAL)

My dear favoured school of all times, BBGS!

With all I AM...Best christian song ever....Hillsong

I Believe in You, My Lord Jesus Christ,ALMIGHTY GOD of the MOST HIGH! =D

If you look like this, your husband will be quite satisfied......

This is under ASIAN GIRLS BEING SEXY :)

STAY-AT-HOME-MOMS ): SAHMs

I know some people feel that housewifes should not be paid because all they do is "lift up your leg only......." The truth is Stay-At-Home-Moms are PRETTY HECTIC. They need to be paid well because it's a BORING JOB.=D

Being Sexy :)

Being sexy isn't all about flirting, it's about being responsible on both parts, the boy and the girl. Once the venom has been put, it is impossible to erase it out or eradicate it. We have to LIVE WITH IT. So it is wise to heed our mother's call and take care not to fall into temptation. Having sex is fun but it could be a painful ending to a moment of fulfillment. What sheer pleasure to find trouble at our doorstep! Be wise about it because it is a family affair. Many people has a share of the part they played and we had to stick to the truth. PRINCIPAL LASTS FOREVER...

LOVE PSYCHOLOGY & REVERSE PSYCHOLOGY :) D

ABSENCE MAKES THE HEART GREW FONDER! - DON'T CHANGE! As women we're often brought up to believe we have to be PERFECT to find the man of our dreams. That's rubbish. I know because I was one of the woman who strived for perfection for years! It didn't get me the man of my dreams. It did make me miserable though. I wasn't being myself. Don't cater to his every need ! It's not because you are the woman for him, it's because you'll do anything he wants. NEVER cook a man dinner every night. NEVER do his laundry if you are dating. NEVER clean his apartment for him and NEVER run over to his place simply because he's feeling frisky. NEVER change your appearance for him. NEVER ACT LIKE HIS MOTHER. NEVER assume he knows what you want. HE DOESN'T KNOW. - REVERSE PSYCHOLOGY../ :)

Guns N' Roses - November Rain

November Rain :D <3

HAMILTON~A National Leader for teaching students to write effectively,learn from each other and think for themselves :D

I have been writing since one year. I have learnt a lot from my thoughts and my action sprung from my thoughts. If I put POSITIVE thoughts into my writings, immediate POSITIVE actions erupted from my being because my soul comes from my writings.. I have perceived a lot but little comes what may, I know how to take charge and proper control over my life.. My wishes had come true and I had THANKED the Lord,God Almighty for his key to freedom..

I TAKE PROPER CONTROL OF MY LIFE through reading and perceiving my writings. I turned into a good being and the truth lies in my principles of life. Not his or any other man. Principles stick like glue and they live forever. PRINCIPLES LIVE ON but lies do not. I don't need another trauma to add into my marriage. My kids are doing fine. They have been well kept and well-entertained through their playstations and internet. I have my very own internet here with my family and I don't even played PS3. I don't play games. I only type and write and paste.

So far life has been keeping me good, with duties done and applauded , chores has been fulfilled. I had my ecstacy and now I have to give it back for the sake of my health.. My writings count for those are my thoughts and my actions and my karma is sound..Until my mother-in-law dies / pass-away, I will not or never be called home to be a slave and the money is not mine. I will have to put it onto the table at all means and my children's welfare is everything on me once again. I shall not take that until the day comes for my entire commitment.

So much for boyfriends and husbands. SERVING is their pride and the KEY to succeed. Use your hands. Empower yourself with your money. Spend it on their beings. THE RETURN will show up. Gratification later but strive. Just don't laugh at my misery or my ill-fate. Not all things are good. The bad will show up and how well you deal with it depends on how well you survive on your own means..HAPPY PARENTING :D

My FRIEND.

My friend is a good man who cares a lot for his offspring but there's a lot that he hasn't learnt. Apart from girls being very much romantic-typed (infact most girls do have this kind of emotional concept), my friend doesn't CARE. He thinks that a simple sum of money can buy a woman's heart / a girl's heart. Infact most girls go for more than just money even though the sum is small. The fact that THE HOUSE plays a very important role - the COMFORT ZONE.

I know my duties, I know my role, I just don't feel comforted or had any COMFORT at all. He doesn't care much about HIS HOUSE other than his full time job! I might buy the wrong things but people changed. The comfort in a relationship. The comfort zone at home is at stake..

I LIKE TO BE ROMANTIC!

I like a guy who's ROMANTIC and knows how to communicate. I like a guy who is EMOTIONAL because after sitting for a quiz, I found out that I'm actually a negotiator. I like people who don't tell me off, they just piss me. I don't like people to comment on bad things about me although I know how to change. Sometimes at the wrong time, it can be harsh and I feel the tension all the time. I don't like to comment on people other than wish them good and nice things in life. I am a typically sentimental person and tears come easily. I don't like to be seen crying or to be in tears. I don't like to be compared to a better person but if you know how to "talk"  I could easily change for the better.

Be SOFT and then you're approachable. Accept and smile or LAUGH it OFF. It works all the time. If you're angry, control your voice and tantrum. Turn away or break into a laughter. People will not be offended. DON'T ASK FOR MONEY. People will know how to buy you and piss you off. It never works.
Always know how to deal with a situation and make things work or go well AS A TEAM. Don't only think about yourself and your money. Things go well if you let others win and know how to accept defeat with a smile. PUSH IT OFF.  It works like magic if you know how to take care of self-esteem. GOOD LUCK be on your side..

JOURNAL ENTRY.

My Next-door neighbour's house caught fire when the lightning struck just three hours ago,noon. Today is thursday, 28th April 2011.We called the fire brigade because we saw fire coming out from the roof-top and the beams falling off to the ground. The fire brigade came and the fire was put off in no time. There was a water pump outside our house. People were taking pictures of the fire from the roof-top of the house. Handphones were flying with pictures here and there. Lucky it didn't distrubt the entire fire rescue. The residents were trying to capture the drama and post it in the internet of theirs. Everyone wanted to recollect the drama of the fire brigade putting out the fire. Everything went well and the fire was put off.

GOOD LIFE.

Having a good Life means doing the things you love and you cherished it. Having a passion means having a love of your life may it be an act, a purpose or a favour. Or it could even be in a human form - a person who can fulfill your life with something anew and afresh. Mine is an object or an act and a purpose in life. A purpose is the most important. Many people lead a normal life of force, sedentary lifestyle. Other than exposing your self to "danger", don't go out at night (for girls) unless you have to and your job requires you to go out at night. Somethings don't last for long, you may not be there permanent, things move and so do people of all walks of life. The thing is to enjoy while you can for certain things are hard to find and when you do find it in the end, you might not enjoy it or wanted it at all. Don't think of the "mission" in life but expect the least to come and the most will arrive.

I like to move on with life. I won't cry over spilt milk, get another bottle ,pay with your cash.There are some things that money can't buy and many things that money can make you do.

NATURE.

Nature has its ways of shaping things. Some people are borned to be queen, for example Princess Katey (Catherine) Middleton. I bet she's the luckiest girl ever!!!!! But underneath lies deep, unreluctant expectations......

How do I face life? I take one step at a time and at each step I take, I contemplate. Take each step as you reach and you won't fall. Don't push the problem away, it only gets farther behind but you still won't solve it. Face it and the truth will come out. Problem solved. Human nature had its ways.... I value that and treasure that thought. I may not understand a million things but if I take heed , I listen, I might come to a good conclusion that I can live with and accept. And there wasn't any case !!!

QUALITIES OF A GOOD HUSBAND.

I am not a LESBIAN.

WE ARE NOT LESBIANS IF WE DO NOT ENGAGED IN THE ACTIVITIES OF A LESBIAN! for example, Kissing among girls, unreasonable explicit act of intercoursing between two person of the same sex and vice versa for men if they do not want to be classified as homosexuals.

My Makeup Story ♥

This is a make-up story.

EVOLUTIONARY PSYCHOLOGY.

Evolutionary psychology (EP) is an approach within psychology that examines psychological traits - such as memory, perception, or language - from a modern evolutionary perspective. It seems to explain how many human psychological traits are evolved adaptations, that is, the functional products of natural selection or sexual selection. Adaptationist thinking about physiological mechanisms, such as the heart, lungs and immune system, is common in evolutionary biology. Evolutionary psychology applies the same thinking to psychology, arguing that the mind has a modular structure similar to that of the body with different modules having adapted to serve different functions. Evolutionary psychologists argue that much of human behavior is the output of psychological adaptations that evolved to solve recurrent problems in human ancestral environments.

Other adaptations, according to EP, might include the abilities to infer others' emotions, to discern kin from non-kin, to identify and prefer healthier mates to cooperate with others and so on. Consistent with the theory of natural selection, evolutionary psychology see organisms as often in conflict with others of their species, including mates and relatives. For example, mother mammals and their young offspring sometimes struggle over weaning, which benefits the mother more than the child. Evolutionary psychology emphasizes the importance of kin selection and reciprocity in allowing for non-selfish social traits such as altruism to arise.

Like chimps and bonobos, humans have subtle and flexible social instincts, allowing them to form extended families, lifelong friendships and political alliances. In studies testing theoretical predictions, evolutionary psychologists have made impressive findings on topics such as infanticide, intelligence, beauty, and parental investment.

Evolutionary psychologists hold that behaviors or traits that occur universally in all cultures are good candidates for evolutionary adaptations. Evolved psychology adaptations ( such as the ability to learn a language ) interact with cultural inputs to produce specific behaviors (e.g. the specific language learned ). Innate gender differences, such as greater adult strength and aggression among men, are explained as adaptations that reflect the different reproductive strategies of males and females. Evolutionary psychologist contrast their approach to what they term the "standard social science model", according to which the mind is a general-purpose cognition duice shaped almost entirely by culture. The influence of adaptationist approaches in psychology has been steadily increasing.

My house where I was married to had no furniture. It has no furnishing. It has no entertainment to lighten up your soul. The days are long for a married stay-home Mom. In order to replenish time other than boring household jobs all around the house, a girl has to have a hobby which she loves.... Let her do something that she enjoys, she will be spirit-free lifted and she will worship you more as long as she knows her boundaries...

Ling Ling.

Hi, my name is Ling Ling. I'm going to turn 42 in April 22nd. I am a Taurian. My chinese zodiac is a cork. I love to eat Kentucky Fried Chicken, Pizza Hut, and also MacDonalds. I also like to eat at Nasi Kandar or any other chinese restaurant near my home. I always prefer Homecook meals but during occasions when everybody is hectic and wiped out, we go outside and eat.

There are four in my family right now. I am married and I have two children. They are both boys, aged 12 and 9 this year. My husband is staying with my children and he takes care of their school days. My mother-in-law, Nanny Mcphee cooks around the house and attend to the children's needs. I'm sorry I couldn't stay with them as I had to take care of my father , who is ill. I also helps my Mom a lot around the house and we always go out together to buy food.

My two boys needed space to grow as the house is very small and the space to grow is very limited. So I have volunteered to relief my space around the house for them to study and play. My two boys are independent and they don't want me around the house and disturb their privacy. I respect their needs and thus my parents agreed to take me in back home. I am now back in hometown with my family. My two boys are happy that they also found their new-found freedom around the house eventhough Nanny Mcphee can be rather strict.

My husband's workplace is very far away from his house and he travels quite a distance to get there. His food supply is limited and his days are jam-packed. His work requires him to be there all the time and always on time in schedule. I respected his duty at work and never troubled him at any cost. He works with the cargo factory and its manufacturers at the port.

He is an average income earner and his allowance I gave to his mother to take care of my two children. I am free from any debt and I am also independent. His mother is quite wealthy and owns a property. She is a vegetarian. My husband is a vegetarian. My two boys are also vegetarian as well. (ps. I'm carnibal - referring to meat )But they do buy a whole chicken that last for a week......

I love my family a lot. I will not forsake them at any cost. I am a lovable mom.Happy Chinese New Year of the Bunny Rabbit 2011!

WHAT DID YOU EAT????

Do you believe that the foods you eat can make your breasts grow? I personally am a little skeptical on this one, as in I don't think that eating a lot of one certain food is going to suddenly turn you into a voluptuous C or D cup, but some people do believe that there is a reason the average bra size for women is on its way up, and doesn't show signs of stopping this upward trend.

Did you know, for example, that Chinese women's average breast size has increased by almost one full cup size over the past ten years, and scientists are wracking their brains trying to figure out why? Many speculate that the increase in Chinese meat and dairy consumption and other "Americanized foods" that can possibly make a woman's breasts grow more is the reason, along with other environmental factors. This theory is especially viable since the Chinese diet used to consist simply of a lot of rice and fish products, which do not really contain estrogenic compounds such as the ones found in the breast enlargement supplements programme.

This theory stems from the fact that the majority of livestock we buy, such as red meats, chicken and other highly consumed meats and other dairy foods in the US are given hormones to make them grow faster, produce more milk and simply be a better product in the end. That is, unless you buy organic. Some theorize that this infusion of hormones in our foods we eat accounts for some of the fact that women's breast are growing bigger over the long haul. I actually just read a story that said that women in Australia's average cup size had grown almost a full cup over the past decade, most likely due to food consumed or some other unattainable or unidentifiable factor, but most likely food or environment related, so there are cases that point to foods and supplements definitely having an impact on the size of the breasts.

Some other foods that may or may not make your breasts grow are foods that contains high amounts of natural estrogens, or phytoestrogens such as pure soy products and other plant life that is characterized by a high phytoestrogen count. These foods include many spices too and whole grain foods and seeds. Some say that eating these types of "vegetarian" foods in high quantities may have a little effect on the growth of your breasts, but if it does, it is norminal at best since it is nearly impossible to sustain the high intake of the phytoestrogens necessary to actually result in permanent breast growth.

But take heart, if in time you have sufficient sleep and sexual intercourse, your breasts will surely grow. It has been heartenly defined that a man's aphrodisiac, his saliva ,has a 10% rate on a breast's growth but scientist has yet to agree that sex does bring about the change in hormone of a woman's body in order to make it fully blown. Still, a woman's attractiveness not only lies in the cup size of her bosom / breasts but it also lies in her skillful hands as well as her innermost beauty that shines out, thus draw a man. Happy Love Making!

How to forget. Glad you asked........

The best thing for getting over someone who doesn't love you is to love yourself more. Try and focus your energy to the future and more positive things or things you can do something about. Time heals all wounds and although you may always have a special place for this person at least you will have more perspective on it after sometime had passed.

TO LOVE MYSELF MORE - buy make-up. Put it on your face. Put it on your hair..!

Too Embarrassed to Ask?

For many women, the area "down there" is a bit of a mystery, and a big reason is that our most personal questions can be hard -- or just too embarrassing -- to ask our doctors. Most people think other people are having more sex than they are. In truth, the only people having a whole lot of sex are those in that dizzying first phase of romantic love when you are literally drugged by your own hormones and just can't keep your hands off each other.

There's an old saying that goes, "Before you get married, put a bead in a big jar everytime you have sex. Soon you will fill the jar. After you get married, take a bead everytime you have sex. You will NEVER empty that jar". Scientifically, the reason this is true is that when you move from the giddy throes of falling in love to the comfy Sunday-morning-with-pancakes-and-the-paper stage of a relationship, a different hormone takes over.

You don't get a rush of adrenaline and other inner opiates that makes you crave a sexual encounter anymore. What you do get is a steady stream of the "bonding" hormone oxytocin. (It's the same one that pumps copiously when a woman is in labor or breastfeeding ) In other words, the neighbors probably aren't doing it any more than you are if you've been together for a while - and that's just fine.

This is the time when we remembers our duties and fulfilled them. A time for spring cleaning, taking out the laundry, doing the lawn, getting the windows cleaned, the curtains washed -- the rush of adrenaline comes in a different form -- in the form of commitment ,bounded by money. Another rush of adrenaline when we suspected that we might be pregnant. I haven't had my period for the last month -- I was kind of late......

Then the rush of adrenalin , when  my husband comes home, is the food ready? Are the children Okay? The tension of being questioned and the hurt of been deprived a trust, on the contrary, it's just a question out of curiosity or even a bribe! Most people don't like to be questioned , but sentimentally , why don't you take a look -- for yourselves -- the table's been set, the baby's not crying, the house is beautifully cleaned!!!! Am I just a freako with an anxious mind or are you that nut who doesn't know how to converse a statement of virtue such as, 'it's good!'~~

An Aphrodisiac for potency?

BLACK LIQUORICE ( CONFECTIONERY )
Liquorice is a confectionery flavoured with the extract of the roots of the Liquorice plant. A wide variety of liquorice sweets are produced around the world. In the U.S., liquorice is called black licorice ( see also spelling differences ) to distinguish it from similar confectionery varieties that are not flavoured with liquorice extract, and commonly manufactured in the form of chewy ropes or tubes. Most popular in the United Kingdom are liquorice allsorts. Dutch and Nordic liquorice characteristically contains ammonium chloride instead of sodium chloride, prominently so in salty liquorice. I personally prefer 'salty liquorice' whatever coloured.

An aphrodisiac is a substance that increases sexual desire. The name comes from Aphrodite, the Greek Goddess of sexuality and love. Throughout history, many foods, drinks, and behaviors have had a reputation for making sex more attainable and / or pleasurable. However, from a historical and scientific standpoint, the alleged results may have been mainly due to mere belief by their users that they would be effective (i.e. the placebo effect ). In particular, Western medical science has no substantiated claims that any particular food increases sexual desire or performance.

DREAM JOB!

Confucius said, "Find a job you enjoy, and you'll never work a day in your life." I'm not sure if that's entirely accurate - even dream jobs can be hard work, but, it does make life much easier when you are doing something you love.

As you can see, dreams come in all shapes and sizes. They are often more attainable than you would think. It's not the number that counts. It matters not how much you're paid, provided you can cover the cost of living in this century. The cost of starting a family, raising children, or even buying a dream house of your own. The first step to take in starting to follow your dream involves deciding what it is you really want to do with your life.

Consider a short-term work experience or an internship as a way to experiment with different positions. You won't need to make a long-term commitment and you will have the opportunity to test the waters with jobs that sound interesting. If you need new skills to accomplish your goals, consider going back to school to get the appropriate training. Then, follow your dreams as best you can........

What is the Cost of having too much Fun?????

Too much fun can be hazardous. Those who love adrenaline rush enjoy roller coasters the most. But for some.......adrenaline rush is too much to handle. In conclusion, you find roller coasters enjoyable because you love the speed, and the adrenalin rush!

Historically and even today, these are people called thrill seekers who like to find ways to shock and excite themselves. Roller coasters were and are a way to defy gravity and speed. In the early days of roller coasters probably the fact that the roller coaster was new helped its popularity. It was something different that gave people a couple minutes of thrill and excitement.

Some people like to give their money to be scared because they feel excited and alive when they get off a roller coaster. Roller coasters took them away from their everyday life for just a couple of seconds and gave them an adventure. The adventure in which today by new ways of building and structuring roller coasters have made them even more popular.

When you enjoy doing something, you are more willing to pay the price for that piece of FUN!

I Love the Beach, through Sands of Time........2011,my Ailing Dad,aged 70

My Dad is sick. He turns 70 in about a weeks time, next Saturday. January 22nd. He was born in 1941. He seems very ill since yesterday when he accidentally fell down. My brother took him to see a doctor at the hospital. The doctor advised that if he can't get up and walk, come back for a CT Scan. He knocked the back of his head onto the mirror and the mirror Broke. I am so scared. I really am.

Somethings related to mirrors are spiritual. The spiritual world is very real in me. I actually tend to see spirits.

The day at the beach in Trengganu, I too broke a pocket mirror. And I lost somebody. Now Dad broke his mirror in his room. He hit his head against the mirror and the whole mirror broke. I am scared for him.......

I send my prayers up to God and prayed a prayer of serenity. I am ready to face life.

                                          A Golden Chain
Friendship is a Golden Chain, the links are friends so dear, and like a rare and precious jewel, It's treasured more each year.......It's clasped together firmly, with a love that's deep and true, and it's rich with happy memories and fond recollections , too......

Time can't destroy its beauty for, as long as memory lives, Years can't erase the pleasure that the joy of friendship gives.......For friendship is a priceless gift, that can't be bought or sold, but to have an understanding friend, is worth far more than gold......

And the Golden Chain of friendship is a strong and blessed tie, binding kindred hearts together, as the years go passing by. - Helen Steiner Rice -

                                         To me, this Golden Chain is commitment, Duties to fulfill and service to entice. I think, this union should always be bonded by money in terms of upbringing, upholding, and starting out as well as building a family of your own. A house to stand firm must have STRONG monetary values as well as terms of commitment and integrity in serving for long term with the courage of LOVE, standing strong. CHANGE is CRUCIAL for both man and woman. Without Change, I will not succeed and acted on love.....